” Here are some of the answers I received: “Faithful, kind, attentive, honest, a true friend, appreciative, loyal.” These are some pretty lofty expectations, but at the same time, shouldn’t the traits listed above be standard?
I don’t know about you, but I’d rather be alone than settle for anything less than these.
It takes patience and strength to wait for the right guy or girl, and guts to move on if the person you’re dating is cheesecake frozen yogurt, when what you really want and need is cookies and cream!
I recently overheard a conversation between two of my college-aged peers during which one commiserated to her sympathetic friend about her guy troubles.
) I give dating advice on things you can do to avoid losers and attract “the one.” Jackie, What do you think we should do for ourselves to draw a healthy, stable, loving relationship into our life? I will never forget the time I was at a restaurant and began talking to a woman who said her boyfriend was outside getting the car. The woman, who instantly transformed from relaxed and happy to tense and worried, started to say good-bye when I asked her if she’d like to stay here with me, along with the girlfriend I was meeting. She declined, at which point I said, “No offense, but why are you with that guy?
Is it me, or is this a nicer way of asking, “How can I avoid picking complete losers and meet someone who is normal and who treats me well? In other words, why do people lower their standards and accept men and women who aren’t the yogurt flavors and toppings they really want? They have low self-confidence and think they are lucky that someone actually likes them. They lack self-love and feel that this is the way they deserve to be treated. As women tend to do, she and I began chatting non-stop, only to be interrupted by a very rude guy standing in the doorway with an angry face, shouting, “Let’s go, woman! ” The woman replied, “Because I’m in the my 50s and I don’t want to be single.” As she walked off, the guy shot me a dirty look and then began yelling at her.
The first thing you can do to stop dating losers is to stop hanging around with losers.
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As much as everyone thinks they want to be in a serious relationship, subconsciously they’re more afraid of things working out with the person they date than they are of everything falling apart. It’s not like they’re hard to find; they’re everywhere. You can’t swing an umbrella without hitting a total moron these days.Even though morons are everywhere, people seek them out in strange places.It’s incomprehensible that someone would try to find a mate in a bar, but this happens all the time. Of course, the rumor is that drinking can make people seem more attractive, so your perception of reality is going to be skewed anyway.Banish the thought that anyone lies on those surveys too because no one would ever try to paint themselves in the most ideal light possible, would they?Of course everyone out there is a philanthropic valedictorian CEO Buddhist monk Eagle Scout…and you are too.With all the deception going on in the dating world, how do you know whether someone is an idiot or not?