My theory is that in the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser.He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions.Money's role in your relationship may be greater than you realize."All you need is love." That's what the Beatles said, and it remains a pretty tempting. If you love someone it doesn't matter if he's a jobless pauper—you'll make it work, somehow.Well, the Beatles didn't live through the recession of the late aughts—and some of today's women are realizing that their relationships are more dependent on money than they once believed. In an essay on The Daily Beast she reveals that ever since her boyfriend lost his job she's frustrated, resentful and wonders if her love is more conditional than she realized.Her boyfriend is a doctor who regularly appeared on TV. There’s a fine balance between loving your man and smothering your man. But, if you put us on a leash, we’ll gnaw it off and go even more crazy once we’re free.
Anyway, she asked for money up front, and he sent her 0.
Well, you could barely keep Thurston on a lat-press machine after that.
He dashed home and did some Googling and found Seeking Arrangement.com, a site built for wealthy (to varying degrees) men who are seeking a formal (to varying degrees) arrangement for sex and (to varying degrees) companionship with someone who in turn is looking for cash and prizes without any drama.
Thurston Von Moneybags (not his real name) was scammed once by a girl in Houston. She didn't show to the meet, and that's the last time Thurston Von Moneybags ever got hustled again.
He had arranged to meet her so that he might size her up and determine whether he wanted to give her a monthly stipend in exchange for regular sex and sometimes maybe dinner. Was she blonde and blue-eyed, the way he liked them? Now he meets the girls for lunch before he offers them an ahem arrangement, and he is very clear. A thing you should know is that there are very few people to root for in this story.